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Entries in dogs (3)

Thursday
Feb042010

What I bought at the bookstore

I've been blocked with my writing. While I'm waiting for my words to come back, I'm enjoying what others have written. Here's what I bought at the bookstore yesterday:

How to Expand Love: Widening the Circle of Loving Relationships

Last year, I'd bought another of his books, The Universe in a Single Atom: The Convergence of Science and Spirituality. I confess I didn't finish it, but I liked what I read. I have long felt science and spirituality have so much in common. While this gave my brain some interesting ideas to chew on, I quickly discovered the Newtonian physics I'd studied in school were not enough to pull me through the discussions of quantum physics in this book. I may revisit it one day and try again.

While I may not have been equipped for the physics discussions, I'm confident my background will enable me to handle a book on love, relationships, and compassion. ; )

Which is why I also bought this one:

 

Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

Long time readers know I've been with the same guy for more than three decades now. In that time, everything has changed--and nothing has changed. I was barely 20 when I married and was SURE I knew exactly what I was getting into.

I did--and I didn't.

The biggest surprise? That love doesn't "last" or necessarily "grow."  It evolves. Sometimes it ends. We have grown apart and come back together many times over the years. I think Elizabeth Gilbert is wise and funny and a brilliant writer. I can't wait to see what she has to say about the institution of marriage, because despite the "success" of my marriage, I consider myself a marriage skeptic too.

Finally, I picked up this:

Inside of a Dog: What Dogs See Smell and Know

A recent article on how service dogs are being trained to help war veterans deal with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and the entrance of Jacques into my life piqued my interest in the incredible bond dogs share with humans. I'm a science nerd and I love biology, so this hit me on that level too.

We're going to be hit by yet another snowstorm this weekend, so now I'm ready to be socked in. What are you reading/watching/listening to?

Wednesday
Jan132010

I feel like Angelina Jolie...

...because yesterday I realized that Jacques is the EIGHTH orphaned animal we've adopted: five cats, three dogs (plus one dog we purchased way back when).  The most we've ever had at one time is two dogs and two cats.

Jacques overcame my resistance to owning another dog by being 1) quiet, 2) full grown, 3) housebroken, 4) calm, 5) small, 6) short-haired, 7) OK with cats, 8) young, 9) healthy, and 10) willing to bond with all members of the family.

He also sports his own brand of cute, especially with his one-ear-up, one-ear-down look.

Check out the funky legs and the big chest. I think he's mostly corgi with some beagle mixed in. He has the corgi head and body, but with longer legs and spots like a beagle.

BTW, that's a bathrobe sash tied around his neck. It acted as a combination collar and leash his first night with us.

In this one, his eyes are getting heavy after a long walk. He looks a bit like my dog, Jenny, a mixed breed who shared our house and hearts for 18 years.

Asleep in his new bed (with the tag still on it!). I haven't weighed him yet, but I'm guessing he's about 20 pounds.

 

Tuesday
Jan122010

I should have seen him coming

I'm an animal lover. While I grew up with pets that lived outside, as soon as I became an adult, I welcomed animals into my home. It all started with the gerbil that I kept hidden in my dorm room in college. Other students had far more interesting (*cough, cough*) forms of contraband, but being a soft-hearted, nerdy grrrl, I limited my rebellious pursuits to illegal rodents.

When the Man and I married, we made our home with dogs and cats, some of them strays that wandered into our lives, others ones we adopted from animal shelters or rescue groups. For most of our life together, we've always had dogs and cats, but in recent years, we've just had cats.

Cats are ideal pets in so many ways. They're so low maintenance. They don't demand too much attention, they're quiet, you can go away for a weekend and leave them alone in the house. As much as I'd loved my dogs, I couldn't deny that being a dog owner was far more demanding of our time, energy, and financial resources.

The Man and I agreed that we were now Cat People and might never own a dog again.

But then right before Thanksgiving, the Man came home from work with a flyer describing a young beagle pup that had been abandoned on a highway near D.C. The family fostering her said she was smart, calm, and nearly housetrained. The photo showed she was also beautiful with soulful lemon drop eyes.

The Man shocked me by saying that maybe we should check on this dog. What?! What?!!! Had he forgotten we had a Plan and that Plan did not include a dog, let alone a puppy!

All through dinner, I kept glancing at the flyer. I was becoming hypnotized by the dog's expressive eyes, my heart softening. When I realized what was happening, I forced myself to snap out of the trance I was falling into and throw the flyer away. My kids, who had been discussing names for the dog, were so disappointed.

They're animal lovers too and have a pet care business in our neighborhood. I reminded them that they handled dogs every day and did not need one of their own. We are, after all, Cat People, I said.

Then over Christmas break, the kids were dogsitting the two gigantic golden retrievers that they normally just care for after school. The kids visited the dogs in their home three times a day, exercising and feeding them and giving them some attention. As Christmas neared, I felt sad that the dogs were separated from their family, and on impulse, I suggested the kids bring the dogs down to our house to hang out with us on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

These are huge dogs. The biggest goldens I have ever seen. The moment they came through my door, the house seemed smaller. I nicknamed them the Ponies because of their massive size and pull. The Ponies were so EXCITED to join us for the holidays that they galloped in circles around the interior of the house, terrorizing the cats with their enthusiasm. Finally they settled down and blended right into our family like perfect canine guests. For two days we were Dog People again, and it felt so natural. I should have known what would happen next.

Yesterday, the kids came home from tending the Ponies with another dog in tow. It was following them, they said. They had never seen it in our neighborhood.

"Leave that dog alone! He belongs to someone! Don't put him on a leash, he needs to go home!"

The dog would not budge from our deck.

I told the Boy to take the dog around the neighborhood and see if he could find its owners. My kids know all the dogs (and dog walkers) in the neighborhood because of their jobs.

Meanwhile, I contacted Animal Control and the SPCA to see if anyone had reported a missing dog matching its description. I checked Craig's List and the classifieds for ads on missing dogs. No luck.

Soon the Boy returned with stories of how other people in the neighborhood had seen this dog over the last few days. He had been cared for by one family for two nights, examined by another kind couple up the road who were already fostering other strays, and then just been set loose again. One of my son's friends had seen someone push a dog out of a car and abandon it near the entrance to our neighborhood not too long ago. We're not sure if it's the same dog.

Meanwhile, even though we are (*cough, cough*) Cat People, we were not going to leave a dog outdoors in this brutal weather, and so we brought him inside. And fed him. And named him Jacques.

He slept with the Boy last night and had scrambled eggs for breakfast.

Y'all already know how this story is going to end, don't you?

There will be  trip to the store today to buy a collar and food. An appointment with the vet if he isn't claimed by the end of the week. And appointments for the cats with an animal psychologist, who will help them deal with their fears, resentment, and sense of BETRAYAL.

Stay tuned.